Sensitive Boundaries: THE NO-NO CROSSLINES FOR THE CHEATING MAN/WOMAN

                                              Sensitive Boundaries

             THE NO-NO CROSS-LINES FOR THE CHEATING MAN/WOMAN

                                                                            by Chrisluchy Initiative 

Boundaries, and a Sensitive one for that matter?

Using any dictionary, you’d find “boundary” defined as borderline, a line that shows or indicates the limit or extent allowed. On the other hand, delicate, easily stimulated or affected, highly reactive etc are words that would be found associated with the word “sensitive”. Therefore, a sensitive boundary/border line is that sensitive point or line in your relationship that MUST NOT be crossed!

 

Cheating is Crossing the Boundary

If you are in a relationship, cheating on your partner, by default is by itself an act of crossing a border line. Yes, it is what it is, even as some people seem to not have control over themselves. But especially in a marriage, except if there is an agreement that it is essentially an Open Relationship (that allows you to have other relationships) when you cheat on your partner, you have crossed the boundary. So, cheating is what you do when you start having another affair with another person, while still in a relationship.

 

The Sensitive Lines that MUST NOT be Crossed

As bad as we have now established that cheating is; as much as we have to admit that some people (based on a various reason, some unexplainable) cannot help but cheat, no matter what, there remains some red lines that you MUST NOT cross while cheating on your partner. These red-lines are so SENSITIVE that they are a HOT no-no, no-go arears! If you must cheat, you cannot afford to touch these, because they are extremely sensitive.

 

1.       The children: No matter what you do as a cheating Man or Woman, even if you do not have any iota of respect for the mother/father of your children, you owe the children the eternal duty of not involving them in anyway in your cheating games. The children MUST NEVER be involved by one parent to cheat on another. This is the ultimate sensitive red line that CANNOT be crossed, for whatever reason.

2.       Family members: Cheating with a member of your partner’s family is as horrible as it can ever be. It is one sensitive red line that if ever crossed would forever leave a trail of hurts and pains beyond you and your partner you cheated on, as you would have destroyed their family.

3.       Doing it in your matrimonial home: Having the affairs in your matrimonial home is by itself as disgusting as it could possibly be. No matter how secret you keep it from your partner, doing it in your matrimonial home is a red line that should not be crossed, because it is as good as throwing it on the face of your partner.

 4.  Deliberately exposing your partner to diseases:
If you have decided that you cannot do without cheating on your partner, it is important that you go the extra-miles in being careful not to expose your partner to any STDs. To understand this, imagine that that your partner you are cheating on has gone out to commit a crime and you are the one that would be sent to prison for it. When you have the sexual affairs and gets infected, transferring it to your partner, who neither had the fun you had nor is aware of it is a red line, a sensitive red line.

  

It is as bad as it can ever be to cheat on your partner. But if you must cheat, you MUST keep off these sensitive red-lines.

 

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